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Often we see men and women going about their days doing things which may be they shouldn’t, spending their own or their parents’ hard earned money which maybe they should save, giving their 10% in areas where maybe they must give out 110%.
All these people have a false sense of entitlement that they “deserve” the best, that somewhere someone has already kept the best in store for them and thedjust have to pass time and they will get it one fine day.
Ever heard of a frustrating voice saying “I DESERVE THIS ! I DON’T DESERVE THIS ! GOD WILL TAKE CARE OF ME NO MATTER WHAT !” This is ridiculous.
This mentality is a sure shot way to mediocrity or maybe a below average life because it is leading you to a place where you self entitle to be the king or queen of the world which is absolutely false.
When reality strikes and your performance is a big zero, you get confused because one moment you were the champion and the next moment you are a loser. This pattern leads to a serious heartbreak which can cause a transformation or a further down fall.
The root lies in the childhood mentoring. Parents and guardians ingrain this sense of false belief that half passing and leaving the rest to God leads to a successful life.
Guardians themselves have never tried to look beyond their safe territory and now they think that their children will follow the same easy path. It’s a typical safe guardian mentality but it is deadlier than death.
One must be humble enough to know they are on an ever learning path, always making mistakes and learning from them, always growing and moving forward and striving to be the best human being they can be.
This is easier said and done. One cannot just decide and go about with their ingrained shitty habits and mentality in place. One must embark on the path less travelled, listening to their heart and playing deaf to the outside forces holding them back into a safe house.
Getting uncomfortable and facing one’s fears is a sure shot path to mastery. It humbles you even if you are a societal hero, you will fall flat on your face million times until you gather enough strength to fight through that pain and push through it.
It will open up another set of crazy opportunities and challenges and will dare you to take on them. One shall now be more confident in approaching challenges as they’ve done it before. And this cycle continues till you become the best version of yourself and this is the breathtaking feet aching heart racing success one can now crown themselves with.
Cheers !
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